If you were raped, assaulted, bullied or harassed by a date, boy/girlfriend, classmate, roommate, campus acquaintance or even someone you worked with, would you be emotionally able to report the incident to the police or the appropriate authorities?
Prosecuting someone you know can be emotionally devastating, especially for a sexual assault, so you want to be aware of what you might face beforehand. How would you handle adverse reactions from relatives, mutual friends, classmates or co-workers if you reported the incident, for example? Don’t be surprised if you meet with disapproval regarding your decision or that those close to you aren’t supportive. It happens. If you’re in a stalking situation, be aware that taking action (legal or otherwise) to block a stalker can anger him/her and prompt them up the ante. Also, laws vary from state to state.
To help you evaluate your situation clearly, get some counseling and support in order to determine your options. Campus departments such as the dean’s office, security or campus police or a counseling center, are a good starting point. National organizations, your local police and/or District Attorney’s Office or off-campus groups like a Family Justice Center are also available to give information and resources. Bottom line: it’s your decision to make and it’s ok to take a pass. Crime Prevention 101
